If you are fortunate enough to be born both Black and female, you will learn early that your needs will, almost never, come before those of The Community. Many within it will expect you to tote the load of White Supremacist Capitalist Patriarchy without complaint and threaten alienation and derision if you dare push back against the accepted hierarchy. In spite of this, the work of pursuing equity in how we talk about and care for Black girls and women continues.